fix(recovery): a torn generation-log tail is a terminal verdict, never a wait

Two halves of one defect, found by a seeded-SIGKILL crash lane.

THE FALSE POSITIVE. stampEntityTree() recorded generationStore.generation()
— the ALLOCATED counter, a number a write in flight has claimed and may
never commit — while the JSDoc beside it already said the source is the
committed generation. Every crash inside a write window therefore produced
a spurious verdict at the next open: either 'sourceGeneration N is ahead of
the log head N-1' (the allocated generation died with the process) or
'rollup invariant nounCount: stamped X, observed Y' (the recovery fold
folded facts the stamp's counts predate). Both told the operator to run
repairIndex() — a whole-store recount — for a store that was coherent.
Measured before this commit: 4 of 11 SIGKILL cycles on a healthy store
raised one of the two. The stamp and the open now both read
committedGeneration(), which is what every other open-time watermark in the
class already reasons about.

THE TERMINAL VERDICT. A stamp still ahead of committed truth after the
recovery fold witnesses a generation that is not in the log — the stamp's
fsync outlived the tail's, and there is nothing to arrive. That is its own
verdict state now ('torn'), never folded in with 'incoherent': the two have
opposite cures. A writer open demotes it — the unusable stamped surface is
re-derived at the committed generation from the live counters, O(1),
straight-line, no loop and no await on external progress, narrated with
both count sets, the stamp's path and its committedAt. A read-only open
cannot re-stamp, so it says so and names the cure instead of guessing, and
still serves. Neither branch waits, and neither locks an owner out of a
canonical tree the stamp only describes.

Pins: the verifier returns the torn verdict with both generations; a
fabricated head-behind-source store narrates precisely, demotes inside a
bounded open, serves its rows, and is quiet at the next open (the demotion
converges); a read-only open narrates the same verdict and leaves the bytes
untouched.

src/db/familyStamp.ts

@@ -12,9 +12,11 @@
  *   the verified surface is a small set of rollup invariants (entity/
  *   relationship counts) plus `sourceGeneration`.
  *
- * `sourceGeneration` is the generation of the source-of-truth log this
- * projection reflects — open-time coherence becomes a COMPARISON (stamp vs
- * log head), not a walk:
+ * `sourceGeneration` is the COMMITTED generation of the source-of-truth log
+ * this projection reflects — never the allocated counter, which names a
+ * generation that may never commit (see {@link StampVerdict.torn}) — so
+ * open-time coherence becomes a COMPARISON (stamp vs committed head), not a
+ * walk:
  *
  * - equal + invariants hold → coherent, serve.
  * - behind → the projection missed the tail (crash between commit and stamp);
@@ -24,6 +26,9 @@
  * - invariants FAIL at equal generation → genuine incoherence: loud, and the
  *   repair ritual (`repairIndex()`, whose recount rebuilds the rollups from a
  *   canonical walk) heals it.
+ * - AHEAD → a torn generation-log tail: the stamp's fsync outlived the log
+ *   tail's. TERMINAL, never a wait — the generation the stamp names does not
+ *   exist to arrive.
  *
  * Stamps are JSON on purpose — every incident gets debugged by reading a
  * stamp in a terminal.
@@ -70,6 +75,12 @@ export type StampVerdict =
   | { state: 'coherent' }
   | { state: 'absent' } // legacy store — first stamp writes at the next flush
   | { state: 'behind'; stampSource: number; head: number }
+  /**
+   * TORN GENERATION-LOG TAIL: the stamp witnesses a source generation the
+   * store's committed watermark can no longer show. TERMINAL — there is no
+   * generation to wait for, so the open demotes (or refuses) and never spins.
+   */
+  | { state: 'torn'; stampSource: number; head: number }
   | { state: 'incoherent'; failures: string[] }
   | { state: 'unverifiable'; reason: string } // a FAULT reading the stamp — never conflated with absence
 
@@ -118,12 +129,15 @@ export function verifyFamilyStamp(
 ): StampVerdict {
   if (stamp === null) return { state: 'absent' }
   if (stamp.sourceGeneration > head) {
-    // A stamp AHEAD of the log claims state that never committed — the
-    // projection was stamped against truth that a crash rolled back.
-    return {
-      state: 'incoherent',
-      failures: [`sourceGeneration ${stamp.sourceGeneration} is ahead of the log head ${head}`]
-    }
+    // A stamp AHEAD of committed truth witnesses a generation the store can no
+    // longer show: the stamp's fsync survived a crash that the log tail did
+    // not. This is the TORN GENERATION-LOG TAIL — its own class, never folded
+    // in with `incoherent` (a count that drifted at a generation both sides
+    // agree on), because the two have opposite cures: incoherence is recounted,
+    // a tear is DEMOTED. It is also terminal by construction — there is no
+    // generation the open can wait for, because the one the stamp names is
+    // gone.
+    return { state: 'torn', stampSource: stamp.sourceGeneration, head }
   }
   if (stamp.sourceGeneration < head) {
     return { state: 'behind', stampSource: stamp.sourceGeneration, head }