feat: comprehensive metadata namespace architecture and cleanup system

BREAKING CHANGE: Remove hard delete option from deleteVerb() for consistent API

- Add complete metadata namespace architecture with O(1) soft delete performance
- Implement periodic cleanup system for old soft-deleted items
- Add restore methods for both nouns and verbs
- Require metadata contracts for all augmentations
- Eliminate namespace collisions with clean separation (_brainy, _augmentations, _audit)
- Optimize index performance using flattened dot-notation for O(1) lookups
- Add comprehensive augmentation safety system with type-safe access control
- Maintain full backward compatibility for existing data
- Add enterprise-grade cleanup with configurable age thresholds and batch processing

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/augmentations/monitoringAugmentation.ts

@@ -33,6 +33,7 @@ export interface MonitoringConfig {
  * - Zero-config with smart defaults
  */
 export class MonitoringAugmentation extends BaseAugmentation {
+  readonly metadata = 'readonly' as const  // Reads metadata for monitoring
   readonly name = 'monitoring'
   readonly timing = 'after' as const
   operations = ['search', 'add', 'delete', 'all'] as ('search' | 'add' | 'delete' | 'all')[]