feat: comprehensive metadata namespace architecture and cleanup system

BREAKING CHANGE: Remove hard delete option from deleteVerb() for consistent API

- Add complete metadata namespace architecture with O(1) soft delete performance
- Implement periodic cleanup system for old soft-deleted items
- Add restore methods for both nouns and verbs
- Require metadata contracts for all augmentations
- Eliminate namespace collisions with clean separation (_brainy, _augmentations, _audit)
- Optimize index performance using flattened dot-notation for O(1) lookups
- Add comprehensive augmentation safety system with type-safe access control
- Maintain full backward compatibility for existing data
- Add enterprise-grade cleanup with configurable age thresholds and batch processing

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src/augmentations/connectionPoolAugmentation.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,7 @@ interface QueuedRequest {
 export class ConnectionPoolAugmentation extends BaseAugmentation {
   name = 'ConnectionPool'
   timing = 'around' as const
+  metadata = 'none' as const  // Connection pooling doesn't access metadata
   operations = ['storage'] as ('storage')[]
   priority = 95 // Very high priority for storage operations