fix: import dedup off-switch honesty + brain-owned lifecycle for the background pass

The post-import background deduplication pass (a merge-DELETE writer,
debounced ~5 minutes after import) had four lifecycle defects:

- enableDeduplication: false did not gate the background schedule — an
  import that explicitly opted out could still have entities auto-removed
  minutes later. The flag now gates both the inline and background passes.
- Each import() constructed its own coordinator-owned deduplicator, so the
  debounce never spanned imports (N imports = N delete timers). The brain
  now owns a single lazy instance (getBackgroundDeduplicator).
- close() never cancelled pending dedup; a delete pass could fire against
  a closed brain. close() now cancels it first.
- The 5-minute timer held the process open (exit-hang class); now unref'd.

Four regression tests pin the contract (background-dedup-lifecycle);
import guides document that false disables both passes.

src/import/ImportCoordinator.ts

@@ -13,7 +13,6 @@
 import { Brainy } from '../brainy.js'
 import { FormatDetector, SupportedFormat } from './FormatDetector.js'
 import { ImportHistory, type ImportHistoryEntry } from './ImportHistory.js'
-import { BackgroundDeduplicator } from './BackgroundDeduplicator.js'
 import { SmartExcelImporter } from '../importers/SmartExcelImporter.js'
 import { SmartPDFImporter } from '../importers/SmartPDFImporter.js'
 import { SmartCSVImporter } from '../importers/SmartCSVImporter.js'
@@ -112,7 +111,12 @@ export interface ValidImportOptions {
   /** Confidence threshold for entities */
   confidenceThreshold?: number
 
-  /** Enable entity deduplication across imports */
+  /**
+   * Enable entity deduplication (default: true). Gates BOTH passes: the
+   * inline merge during import AND the debounced background pass that runs
+   * ~5 minutes after the last import (which merge-DELETES duplicate entities).
+   * Set false for deployments that must never auto-remove records.
+   */
   enableDeduplication?: boolean
 
   /** Similarity threshold for deduplication (0-1) */
@@ -286,7 +290,6 @@ export class ImportCoordinator {
   private brain: Brainy
   private detector: FormatDetector
   private history: ImportHistory
-  private backgroundDedup: BackgroundDeduplicator
   private excelImporter: SmartExcelImporter
   private pdfImporter: SmartPDFImporter
   private csvImporter: SmartCSVImporter
@@ -300,7 +303,6 @@ export class ImportCoordinator {
     this.brain = brain
     this.detector = new FormatDetector()
     this.history = new ImportHistory(brain)
-    this.backgroundDedup = new BackgroundDeduplicator(brain)
     this.excelImporter = new SmartExcelImporter(brain)
     this.pdfImporter = new SmartPDFImporter(brain)
     this.csvImporter = new SmartCSVImporter(brain)
@@ -1459,9 +1461,16 @@ export class ImportCoordinator {
       }
     }
 
-    // Schedule background deduplication (debounced 5 minutes)
-    if (trackingContext && trackingContext.importId) {
-      this.backgroundDedup.scheduleDedup(trackingContext.importId)
+    // Schedule background deduplication (debounced 5 minutes, brain-owned so
+    // close() can cancel it). Honors the same enableDeduplication gate as the
+    // inline pass — false means NO dedup, inline or background.
+    if (
+      trackingContext &&
+      trackingContext.importId &&
+      options.enableDeduplication !== false
+    ) {
+      const backgroundDedup = await this.brain.getBackgroundDeduplicator()
+      backgroundDedup.scheduleDedup(trackingContext.importId)
     }
 
     return {