feat: comprehensive metadata namespace architecture and cleanup system

BREAKING CHANGE: Remove hard delete option from deleteVerb() for consistent API

- Add complete metadata namespace architecture with O(1) soft delete performance
- Implement periodic cleanup system for old soft-deleted items
- Add restore methods for both nouns and verbs
- Require metadata contracts for all augmentations
- Eliminate namespace collisions with clean separation (_brainy, _augmentations, _audit)
- Optimize index performance using flattened dot-notation for O(1) lookups
- Add comprehensive augmentation safety system with type-safe access control
- Maintain full backward compatibility for existing data
- Add enterprise-grade cleanup with configurable age thresholds and batch processing

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/augmentations/synapseAugmentation.ts

@@ -32,6 +32,10 @@ export abstract class SynapseAugmentation extends BaseAugmentation {
   readonly timing = 'after' as const
   readonly operations = ['all'] as ('all')[]
   readonly priority = 10
+  readonly metadata = {
+    reads: '*' as '*',  // Needs to read for syncing
+    writes: ['_synapse', '_syncedAt'] as string[]
+  }  // Adds synapse tracking metadata
   
   // Synapse-specific properties
   abstract readonly synapseId: string